Help!! trying to chose between two colleges?

Middle Tennessee State University or University of Memphis!? I want to get away and go to mtsu but then again i want to stay home with family but they tell me to leave and get away or I'm going to be stuck in Memphis all my life and that's not what I want. I need to make a decision soon for orientation. please help me in making this decision. Also both are gonna be covered when it comes to tuition.